June 29, 2009

How to Get That Hard-to-Find Thing Your Kid Needs

Filed under: Family Logistics, Sports, Youth Sports Teams — Tags: , — admin @ 3:59 pm

Have you ever gone from store to store to find something? The more specific and unusual an item is, the harder it will be to find in a local store. Kids sporting activities often require gear that is specific to that sport and can be difficult to find. Luckily, we no longer have to find things locally or drive to the nearest big city to shop. There are more online stores than ever before, and since they serve a nationwide or worldwide customer base they are able to offer products that wouldn’t sell in enough quantities in one geographical area.

I ran into this problem recently when I tried to get a swimsuit for my daughter for a junior lifeguard program. It needs to be red and strong enough to stay in place no matter what she does. My daughter also wants a two-piece. This shouldn’t be too hard, right?  We started at a local swim shop that specializes in gear for competitive swimming and water polo. They have all kinds of good stuff for water sports. Unfortunately, they don’t have a red two-piece suit in my daughter’s size. The sales lady was very nice and tried to help. When it became apparent that they didn’t have what we needed, she asked if it had to be red. Yes, it does. We’re looking for something very specific. I understand if they don’t have it in stock. How many red two-piece competitive swimsuits in this particular size can they sell in South Orange County?  If they carried everything that anyone might want, their inventory would have to be huge. The more specific the item you’re looking for, the more likely it is that shopping online will save you time and money. What if you need goal keeper gloves, a swim parka, or kid sized golf clubs? If you do find them at a local brick and mortar store, you’re going to pay whatever price the store asks. If you shop online, you have the opportunity to compare prices at your leisure.

We’ve tried Sports Chalet, Big 5 and Chick’s (now Dick’s) with no luck. So I went looking online and found several good online stores that sell swimwear. But there are some things you need to do in order to make the most of your online shopping experience.

You must shop early. If you need it tomorrow, shopping online is not the right answer. You need to be organized enough to shop ahead of time. A few weeks is optimal. You can shop a few days before you need something if you’re willing to pay for expedited shipping and you’re positive that it’s going to be the right thing the first time.

Make sure that you’re shopping on a secure website. Look at the url or the website address. It should be at the top of your browser and it usually starts with http. When you get to the page where you need to enter private information, like your credit card number, it should start with https://  That means that there are standard security features in place so that your private info won’t get hacked. How secure is it? Well, I don’t know the technical details of how the security certificate works, but I know that major reputable online stores like Amazon and iTunes use it successfully. I have been making online purchases at a variety of places for at least 5 years and have never run into a problem having my data stolen.

Speaking of reputable stores, you need to make sure that the store you buy from has a good track record. Fortunately that information is available at your fingertips too. Go to the Better Business Bureau’s site and type in the website address. If the BBB has received any complaints about the business, you’ll be able to see what the complaint was about and whether the company addressed it to the customer’s satisfaction. The BBB report may also tell you how long they’ve been in business.  If they don’t have any information on the store, at least you know that they haven’t received any complaints about them. If you have doubts and you’re willing to do a little extra research, you can check out how long that domain name has been registered by doing a whois search on Godaddy. If a site has been registered for only a few months, the fact that it has no complaints probably doesn’t mean much. In fact, unscrupulous store owners would be smart to just go register a new domain name when their old one gets complaints.

Before you hit the checkout button, be sure to check the store’s return policy. This is doubly important if it’s something like clothing and you aren’t positive that it will fit correctly.

Check the shipping / handling cost too. There is a wide range of prices for shipping because many stores mark up the shipping cost that they’ve negotiated with their vendor. One of the biggest benefits to buying online is the ability to compare prices on the same item at different stores. But make sure you include the shipping costs in your comparison.

Last but not least, look for Coupons. There are many sites out there that list coupon codes for online stores. The easiest way to find out if there is a coupon for the store you’re looking at is to do a search on “storename coupon”. You might not find anything, but if you do it’s well worth the extra few minutes.

If you haven’t shopped online before it may seem a little scary, but more and more people are doing it with great results. Give it a try!

June 25, 2009

Kids Summer Plans Affected by Recession

Filed under: Child Care, Summer Camps — Tags: — admin @ 12:00 pm

CNN has a good article about how the recession is impacting kids’ summer camps this year. Not surprisingly, many camps are reporting lower enrollment this year.

It seems like we have gotten out of control with the amount of money we spend on these programs. My sixth grader brought me a flyer from a camp he wanted to attend. It was a sleep-away camp where kids could learn to skateboard and razor. I think there were motorized vehicles involved too. The price tag was about $950 for a week. Yikes! I understand that it probably costs a lot to run a camp like that, but who can afford it?

Summer camps have two roles. One of course is fun, friendship, and learning.  The other is child care. Even teenagers need something to do with their time. So parents who are working are still signing their kids up for camp, they’re just going with less expensive camps. And requests for financial aid for camps are way up.

What camps are less expensive? Things like the Boys and Girls Club, YMCA and camps offered by city recreation departments. Daycamps are more cost effective than overnight camps.

Are you cutting back on summertime activities for your kids? There may be some creative ways to send your child to camp. There may be some camps that will trade volunteer time from you for the camp fee for your child. Or get a group of parents together and organize some fun outings.

If you are in a position to do so, consider donating time and/or money to one of the many organizations that provide low cost summer camps for kids. The Orange County Register has a campership program where you can contribute online. Or consider approaching whoever runs the summer camp where your child is going to see if they know of a child who would like to attend but can’t for financial reasons.

A camp doesn’t have to be pricey. Kids just need a safe place to go be with other kids and keep busy.

June 22, 2009

Live the Movie Magic!

Filed under: Performing, Summer Camps, Uncategorized — Tags: , — admin @ 12:00 pm

Nothing captures the imagination quite like a really good story. Kids have been fighting with light sabers since 1977. And who wouldn’t want to be Hermione?

Well, some creative person has thought up a way for kids to experience the world of their favorite movie. The City of Brea is offering four week-long summer camps built around favorite movies.

Be a Jedi

Be a Jedi for a week!

Star Wars Camp

Campers will participate in Jedi training. They’ll learn performing arts, martial arts, film, costuming, crafts and magic in preparation for fighting evil.

Indiana Jones Adventure Camp

Kids will use codes and strategy to find some of the world’s most prized historic pieces.

Survivor Camp

Tribes of campers participate in competitions that require teamwork and dedication.

Harry Potter Camp

harrypotter1Campers will study magic, potions, horticulture and flight.  They’ll make capes, wands and everything they need to be a witch or wizard. This camp is offered the week before the opening of Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince.

 

 

 

 

 

Don’t live near Brea? These and more theme camps are offered through various cities by Edutainment Arts.  Their website includes a description of all the camps they offer and the various recreation departments they work with.

June 18, 2009

Duckling Love

A while back I wrote about how to hatch chicks, ducklings or quail. It sounded like so much fun that I just had to try it out myself.

I reserved the incubator ahead of time. Wagon Train has a waiting list, so I had to wait 4 or 5 weeks for my turn.  I picked up the incubator and the eggs on a Tuesday afternoon. The lady there explained everything to me and gave me a paper with instructions, including their phone number if I had any questions. That turned out to be good, because I did have questions when they were hatching, and the store was very nice about helping me. Between the incubator, the eggs, ducking food and wood shavings, the whole thing cost about $75. You also need a water container, and they sold food dishes, but my teacher friend told me that a jar lid would suffice for that.

I set up the incubator on the island in the kitchen. The eggs need to be turned over twice a day.  You can rent an automatic turner with the incubator, but I decided I could do it myself. I marked the eggs in pencil – A on one side for AM and P on the other side for PM. And started turning. Twice during the 4 weeks, I forgot, but the eggs turned out okay anyway.

Duck Eggs in an Incubator

Duck Eggs in an Incubator

Sometime during the first week, the whole thing started smelling bad, so I moved it to the garage. Moving it is a bad idea. There’s water in the incubator, and there are holes at the bottom so that any extra water is drained away. So when you move it, guess what happens?  But I got it moved to the garage where it remained for the duration. A day or two later one of the eggs turned black and cracked. Now the mystery of the bad smell was explained.  I threw that egg out and kept going.

After the first week, you’re supposed to dunk the eggs in warm water three days a week. That’s fine except that they’re slippery and I wasn’t careful. I dropped an egg on the garage floor and it cracked. Well, at least it was still pretty early in the game. Now I was down to 10 eggs.

On the 26th day, a Sunday, the action started. If you held one in your hand you could feel the duckling inside moving. Then we noticed a small bump on some of the eggs where the duckling was pecking away from inside. I was hoping they’d hatch on Sunday, since I had to go to work on Monday, but it takes these guys a while to break out.

Once they hatch, you’re supposed to leave them in the warm, humid incubator for 1-2 hours and then move them to the dry brooder with a heat lamp so they can dry off. I came home from work a couple times to check on them. First, they peck a hole and you can see the beak. Then they chirp and peck away, making the hole bigger. Then when they’ve got a big enough hole, they stretch out, the whole egg cracks and they make their escape. They’re wet and weak from their exhausting chore, and they fall out of the egg.  The first egg hatched at 1:00 PM on Monday.

A Newly Hatched Duckling

A Newly Hatched Duckling

Throughout Monday afternoon and evening, little ducks were toiling to break free.  As each one recovered a little from his ordeal, we moved them to the warm, dry plastic bin that was their new home. They pecked at each other to help dry and fluff up their feathers. Pretty soon a bunch of pathetic looking birds turned into fluffy yellow ducklings.

By the end of Monday night, there were 5 adorable ducklings, 3 eggs that had never twitched, and two that were still in the process of breaking out of their shells. One of those two hatched at 3 am Tuesday morning.

When it was time for me to go to work Tuesday morning, the last little duckling was still trying to get out. There was a hole big enough to see his face, and it had been that way for a while. So I made a small makeshift incubator out of plastic containers from my kitchen. I put two very small containers, the thermometer, and the egg into a bigger container. I filled the smaller containers with water and kept the lid loosely closed to raise the humidity. I put it on my desk next to a space heater and waited. The little duck inside the egg had made no progress by 2:00. It looked like he was exhausted.

I took him home and called Wagon Train. They told me that I could remove a very small piece of shell, the size of a pencil-top eraser, above his beak, each hour. So I started doing that. By 6:00 the hole was bigger, but only due to my efforts. The little duck just wasn’t making any progress, and time was running out.

By now Wagon Train was closed, so I called my favorite Kindergarten teacher. She told me that many times she has broken a bird out of its shell. Now there are two schools of thought on this. Some say that if a bird isn’t strong enough to break out on its own, then it wasn’t meant to be. There’s something wrong and he probably wouldn’t make it even if you did help. But I could see his little face and hear his pathetic chirps. I had to try.

The 7th duckling was very weak.

The 7th duckling was very weak.

I slowly broke away enough of the shell that he should be able to get out easily. He stretched out his little neck and fell out of his shell.  But the umbilical cord was still attached and he was dragging the remainder of his egg behind him.  He stumbled into the remainder of another shell and collapsed. After 2 hours in the incubator he didn’t appear to have regained any strength.  I moved him to a separate plastic bin from the other ducklings. The umbilical cord was still attached to his bellybutton and the sac to that, but the sac and the egg were only attached by a thread, so I clipped that with scissors and at least the egg shell was gone. Between his weakness and the sac still attached, he could only stumble and collapse. I managed to get him a little water, put the heat lamp on and hoped. When I went to bed, I didn’t think he’d last through the night.

When I got up, he was looking a little better. He took some food and water, but he wasn’t very steady on his feet. And although his feathers had dried out, he wasn’t fluffy and yellow like the others.

I called Wagon Train again to ask what to do about the umbilical cord, and found out that it should fall off on its own in a day or two. Wednesday afternoon he seemed much better. Four of the ducklings were away visiting a Kindergarten class, so I thought this would be a good time to put him in the larger bin with just two of his siblings. I watched to make sure that they wouldn’t peck at his belly button, but all three just started grooming each other. He seemed much happier to be with the other ducklings.  By the time the other four returned, I had no qualms about leaving Lucky alone with his siblings. Thursday morning the umbilical cord fell off and he looked and acted just like the others.

About Ducklings

Playing Outside

Playing Outside

There are two things that little baby ducklings love: each other and water. They sleep piled up under the heat lamp. Literally. If you leave one or two alone, they will complain loudly. It sounds like a very loud cricket – steady persistent chirps. When their buddies are back, they’re quiet and happy.

They also love water. Whatever water is in their cage, they will splash around in it. This is quite messy, especially since I’m trying to keep the wood shavings dry so the birds will stay warm. My favorite Kindergarten teacher even filled a tub with water and let them swim. At two days old, they could swim under water! I’ve read that in the wild the mother duck limits their water time because they don’t have enough oil to keep their feathers dry yet.

Kids can hold the ducklings.

Kids can hold the ducklings.

On Thursday morning my daughter took the ducklings for a walk outside. Yes, they will follow you and stay together. What a sight!

Although Wagon Train will let you return the ducks up to 4 weeks after they hatch, I’d had enough of changing out the shavings every day (sometimes twice a day). My boys had lost interest and my teenage daughter had end of the school year activities that would keep her out of the house most of Thursday and Friday.

Now the people at my office who had rooted for Lucky were asking about the ducklings.  I made a deal with one of my co-workers. He could take the ducklings home to his two little girls if he would return them to Wagon Train when they’d had enough. So seven little ducklings went to play with more children.

Duckings Sleeping

Duckings Sleeping

I went back to Wagon Train to return the incubator. They had an adorable little lamb in their shop. They also have ducks and chickens, which people buy as pets.  That’s why they want the ducklings back while they’re still young and cute.

All in all, it was a great experience. I did lose some sleep when things didn’t look good for Lucky. I’d rather an egg hatched or didn’t, but it was worth it.

If you are interested in hatching ducklings, chickens or quail, check out my earlier post.

June 15, 2009

Bring the Wildlife to You!

Filed under: Animals, Educational — Tags: , — admin @ 6:02 pm

We are fortunate here in Southern California to have hummingbirds year round. Take advantage of it by setting up a hummingbird feeder in your yard.

Hummingbirds are tiny, weighing only a few grams. Their wings move so fast that hummingbirds can hover, and even fly backwards. They’re amazing to watch, but it’s difficult because they move so fast. So how can you get a good look at a hummingbird? Offer it food.

Hummingbirds eat nectar from flowers, which you can easily duplicate. First, you need a hummingbird feeder. There are many varieties, from plain plastic feeders to ornate pieces that match you garden décor. You need to find the right place to hang it. Right outside a window is idea, since kids can watch the hummingbirds without scaring them away. I have a string tied to a nail in the eave of the roof, and the hummingbird feeder hangs from that. Make sure that there are no places for sneaky cats to lie in wait, like the top of a fence or column.

Next you need nectar. You can buy it commercially or make it yourself. Making it is very easy. Put about a cup of sugar in a large measuring cup. Fill it up to 2 cups with boiling water and mix until the sugar is dissolved. A lot of people add red food coloring, since the birds are attracted to flower-like colors, but it’s not necessary, since most feeders have red plastic “flowers”. Wait for the mixture to cool, fill the feeder and put it out.

It may take some time for the hummingbirds to find your feeder, so be patient. Once the word gets out, you’ll have quite a show. Hummingbirds are territorial and will often try to chase each other away from the feeder. If you’re really lucky, a bird may stop fluttering its wings and actually stand on the little perch. Then you can get a really good look.

There are a few things to look out for. Like anything with sugar, hummingbird feeders attract ants. I’ve actually seen them climb down the string to get to the feeder! To prevent this, put thick, heavy chalk marks around where the nail is attached to your house. For some reason, the ants won’t cross it. Also, the nectar can get moldy. Once the crowds have discovered your feeder it won’t have a chance to get moldy before it’s gone. But at the beginning, if it’s been out for a few weeks you might have to empty the feeder, clean it out and start over.

Hummingbirds are the easiest pet you’ll ever have. There’s no cleanup, no training, and no vet bills. And you can enjoy them in any type of home from an apartment to a mansion.

Educational Classes in Summertime

Filed under: Educational, Summer Camps — Tags: , , , — admin @ 12:00 pm

If your child struggles with school work, a fun summertime class can give them a big head start and extra confidence. If academics are difficult for them, don’t sign them up for educational classes all summer.  Kids who struggle probably need a break more than those who seem to sail through school. Give them a week or two to rest and then slip in something educational.

There are a ton of activities offered in Orange County that will help a child with academics. Some of them aren’t even strictly academic classes.

Summer School

Most school districts offer summer school. For elementary students, this is a half-day, less formal version of regular school. It’s usually held at just one or two schools in the district and taught by regular elementary school teachers. For middle school and high school students, summer school is still usually half day. Kids can take an elective that interests them, repeat a class that they failed, or take a class that they just can’t fit into their schedule during the school year. Check out your school district’s website to see where these classes are offered. They’re usually free for students in that district, but with recent budget cuts, who knows?

Many private schools also offer summer school.  If you’re considering sending your child to a private school, this might be a good opportunity to check one out.

Some community colleges offer College for Kids. Kids can choose from a variety of classes, some academic and some recreational. Kids go from one class to another during the day, just like in middle and high school. There are people there to help them find the different classrooms. Your child can sign up for an academic subject like math that they need a little extra help with, sports or art classes, or something like keyboarding that will help make schoolwork easier.

Tutoring

Tutoring has the benefit individual instruction or very small group instruction. The tutor can concentrate on the specific things that your child needs help with. It also provides a lot of attention for your child, which is especially beneficial if you find a tutor who is generous with praise.

Where can you find a tutor? Many regular teachers offer tutoring over the summer. Check with your school to see if any of your favorites offer private tutoring. Do you have any college students in your neighborhood? This would be an especially good fit for a college student who is planning to become a teacher.  What about that high-school age girl who used to babysit your kids? There are also many private tutoring facilities, such as Kumon or Score.

Which kind of tutor you hire will depend on what you’re hoping to accomplish. If you want someone to test your child, figure out what his or her needs are and make a plan, you should probably hire a professional. If you want someone to assist your child in working through some material that you purchase at a teacher supply store, then a less formal arrangement might work for you.

Recreational classes

There are a variety of recreational classes available for kids in Orange County. For instance, your child could take a class in reading development that meets three hours a week. Or they could sign up for something fun that happens to work the brain muscles too, like science, music or chess.

Whatever you choose, make sure that your child’s summer includes a healthy dose of fun and relaxation. That’s at least as important to your child’s success when September rolls around again.

June 11, 2009

Free Summer Movies at Regal

Regal Cinemas is offering its annual Free Family Film Festival again this summer. Every Tuesday and Wednesday at 10:00 AM, Regal will play a G or PG rated movie. The price of admission?  Free!  Tickets are available at the box office the day of the show, and space is limited.

Bring the young ones for a couple hours out of the sun. If your kids are old enough and will behave well, you can drop them off at the theater for a while. If you’re at work, maybe they can even walk or ride their bike to the theater.

freefamilyfilmfestivalThe Free Family Film Festival is available at the following Orange County locations:

  • Aliso Viejo
  • Anaheim Hills
  • Brea
  • Costa Mesa (2 locations)
  • Foothill Ranch
  • Garden Grove
  • Irvine
  • Tustin

Movies on the schedule for Summer 2009 are:

  • Doogal
  • Surf’s Up
  • Space Chimps
  • Igor
  • The Tale Of Despereaux
  • Nim’s Island
  • popcorn2Horton Hears a Who
  • Spiderwick Chronicles
  • Kit Kittredge: American Girl
  • Hotel for Dogs
  • Charlotte’s Web
  • Kung Fu Panda
  • Pirates Who Don’t Do Anything: Veggie Tale Movie
  • Inkheart
  • Everyone’s Hero
  • Madagascar 2: Escape To Africa
  • Mr. Magorium’s Wonder Emporium
  • Alvin and the Chipmunks
  • Bee Movie
  • Curious George
  • Journey To The Center Of The Earth
  • Meet Dave
  • Star Wars: Clone Wars

Check their website for dates at the theater near you.

June 8, 2009

Free Fishing Clinic for Kids

Going Fishing

Going Fishing

There’s nothing quite like the thrill of catching your very own fish! Kids and fishing go together, but a lot of us don’t think about it outside of our summer camping vacation. But there are plenty of places right here in Orange County for kids to go fishing.

But you don’t have the equipment or the knowledge. You could buy a pole and a fishing license for yourself and take your kids to the ocean or a lake to go fishing. But there’s a free and easy way for your kids to learn to fish.

girlandfishDana Wharf Sports Fishing is offering free kids fishing clinics every Sunday at noon. This is a 45-minute dockside class in fishing. Kids will learn fishing techniques and hook tying. Raffle prizes will be given away. No reservation is required. Just show up with a sense of adventure!

If your child really likes fishing and wants to go out on a fishing cruise, Dana Wharf has a special offer on their Sunday afternoon cruises. One child can go for free with a paying adult. This includes the rental of the equipment. Their cruises are often full, so don’t count on going the same day you come for the clinic unless you’ve purchased tickets ahead of time.  Check out Dana Wharf for details.

Dana Wharf is located in Dana Point Harbor, which is a nice place to walk around. There are also a lot of restaurants.  You could make a day of it by going out for Sunday brunch before the clinic or stopping for lunch afterwards.

June 4, 2009

Equestrian Summer Camps

Filed under: Animals, Summer Camps — Tags: , , — admin @ 12:00 pm

horseandfoalIs there an animal lover in your house?  Do you have a child that oohs and ahhs every time they see a horse?  Do they ask you to please get them one?

There are a lot of places even here in Orange County where a kid can get a lot of time with horses, and summer is the perfect time to do it.  Many places run week-long summer camps.  If your child really loves it, you can sign them up for multiple weeks.

All equestrian camps teach kids how to ride horses.  They have gentle horses that kids can handle.  They work with kids so they’ll learn how to handle the reins, how to get the horse to stop and back up, and the different gaits.  Most programs include tacking and horse care as well.  Some teach vaulting, roping and horse science.  A few expand to include other farm animals, like goats and chickens.  Still others incorporate non-horse related activities like crafts and swimming.

girlandhorseAttending a camp like this will help kids to respect, be comfortable around and be kind to animals. It will also give them an idea of the daily care that animals require. (If they’re old enough, it might answer that pesky question about why they can’t have a horse!)

There are many intangible benefits to interaction with animals. Learning non-verbal communication will help kids in future interactions with others who may have less advanced verbal skills. Taking care of animals helps kids learn about responsibility and trust.  And of course they’re outdoors riding, walking and moving, which is great exercise.

pettinggoatsIn Orange County there are several ranches that offer summer day camps, where children come each day for a week.  There are also many places just outside the county where kids can go for a sleep away summer equestrian camp. Whatever you choose, it will be an experience that your child will always remember.

June 1, 2009

Visit Exotic Birds in Orange County

Here’s a great but short trip that the kids will love.  Stop by Omar’s Exotic Birds in Lake Forest or Placentia. Omars is a pet shop that sells birds and bird supplies. The unique thing about Omar’s is that their birds are not kept in cages. They’re out on perches interacting with customers!

bird-0334The shops are full of parrots, macaws, conures, cockatoos and more.  Many of them are willing climb onto your shoulder or hand.

Of course this kind of activity calls for a bird etiquette lesson before you go. Depending on the age of your children, you may choose to let them touch the birds, or not.  If you’re just going to look, let them know ahead of time. If your kids will be allowed to pet the birds or allow the birds to climb on them, you should talk to them about letting the bird choose whether it wants to interact with the child.  Explain that some birds might be afraid of people and it’s better not to scare them. You should also prepare them for the possibility that they might get nibbled on or pooped on by a feathered friend.

If you like, you can expand this into an educational visit, kids can learn about some of the bird species before they go. They can look on a globe to find the places the birds come from. Many exotic birds are endangered in the wild. Kids could find out why they’re endangered and what people are doing to help. Omar’s website has a link to Parrots International, a group which is working to protect these birds’ environments.

If you are considering adding a bird to your family, this is a great place learn about the different species and their care.

If your kids are too young or too exuberant to handle a bird gently, but really want to touch, you might consider taking them to Zoomar’s instead. The farm animals there are more accustomed to small children.

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